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Love and Hip Hop co-star MENDEECESS HARRIS is in a whole heap of trouble. HARRIS, boyfriend and baby father to YANDY SMITH, now joins three men being accused of drug trafficking of heroin and cocaine in upstate New York.
According to reports by Rochester’s local newspaper, Democrat and Chronicle, HARRIS is involved in federal investigation allegedly accusing him of moving $2.5 million worth of drugs between 2005 and August 2012.
His co-defendants have already pleaded not guilty, although more than 1.5 million dollars in cash and jewelry has been seized by the authorities.
HARRIS will be arraigned in Rochester after a current trial in New Jersey for him sexually abusing a 15-year-old girl is finished.

What do you think?

R.I.P. Amy Winehouse.

Amy Winehouse as you know was found dead in her London home yesterday.

The talented singer was just 27 years old.

Everybody on twitter and facebook bashed her death.

She was human just like everybody else, people have their demons and vices.

If drugs were hers, then it was her life.

Our actions will forever have consequences and we just have to deal with it.

To judge and bash her for her actions doesn't make her death any less sorrowful.

I mourn a talented singer, I always use to ask myself when she is coming out with more music.

She fell for her demons and she is no longer with us.

Condolences to her family and friends.

R.I.P. AMY WINEHOUSE!

 

On To The Next.

Kelsey Grammar is seen with his FIANCEE Kayte Walsh.

If any of my readers watch The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills know that Grammar has asked Camille for a divorce.

Now we all see why.

According to People.com Camille and Kayte met for the first time last Wednesday.

We will she how Camille truly feels about Kelsey ditching her and their kids for this younger woman.

She has been there through his sobriety and other major issues.

How would you feel readers?

LIFE IS A CYCLE.

Darnell Brandon Gibson and I share a blood/family close bond.

Tasha[ME] born in April while Darnell was born in August of 1989.

As children we went from diapers all the way up to college.

Wanting the best for each other and nothing less.

Its funny because I just talked about him and what he did as a little boy.

We both laughed and cried throughout our lives.

&& to see him go so soon breaks pieces of my heart.

He was a good person with a good solid heart.

EVERYONE loved him, I do not know who would beg to differ.

I'll never forget that call yesterday morning.

That feeling is all too familiar.

We all want to know why, but guess what?

We are not God.

In time all our pain and hearts will heal.

We just buried our grandmother in `08, some still have not accepted it.

I did not get a chance to hug him and joke with him.

I only seen him laying there on that table, something I WILL NEVER FORGET!

Like all family, we had our rough patches but it was NEVER bad blood between us.

I cry and cry, but he's not coming back.

I wish and pray, but he's not coming back.

My soul burns like an inferno from all the pain, anger, and sadness.

I will lift you up because you was not a dark/ dull person.

We will for ever celebrate you because you was a happy/laid back person.

You are now joining your grandmother [MA] and your great-grandfather [SUN] in heaven.

They will look after you as they did when they were on earth.

Until we meet again;

R.I.P DARNELL BRANDON GIBSON 8/10/1989 - 6/20/2010

We love you & we miss you!

Memories don' t FADE!

 

Broken Promises.

Broken promises does not move me.

Unfulfilled actions does not intrigue me.

Can I just be happy?

Unsettled words and little misfits are unnecessary.

Where are you when I need you to hold me?

No calls.

No texts.

Hope I do not fail this test.

                             -Tasha G.

Beauty School Dropout.

Looks like Ms. Jessica Simpson has been experimenting with short hair.

Good thing its a wig because darling that does not fit you.

Everybody can not go short.

Readers what do you guys think?

Fierce 21st.

I turned 21 yesterday! I thank God for blessing me with another birthday; not too many get that.

This is one of my ensembles that I wore yesterday.

The outfit came from H&M, many of you dislike the store.

But I always find nice things to fit me in there.

Anyway, I am very thankful for the two people who spent time with me last night.

I had beyond a blast!!!

My cake that was made for me; which is VERY TASTY!

All in the family.

Arising drama for Nene Leakes from The Real Housewives of Atlanta.

Her son Bryson Brant was arrested on marijuana charges on March 7.

NeNe claims her son's arrest is a "family issue."

She also states that she is a good parent and kids make mistakes, and she and her husband will have a talk with her son on the matter of substance abuse.

She tweets something along the lines of her job as a parent is never done but "Tough Love" is in order.

Mmm okay NeNe.

Good luck with that.

Notebook 104.

Rainy days are not my friend.

I woke up this morning to find out that the teacher isn`t going to show up today.

A little pissed; I sat down feeling like a wet puppy.

Wish that I could go back home but I have class at eleven.

Rainy days call for cookies & ice-cream with my other half.

Rainy days just aren`t for me.

It messed up my mood and plans for the day.

Mother nature you are cock-blocking.

I would like to see my babe, and just cuddle for the whole day.

Oh, how I do dream hard.

Confirmed.

Atlanta's Real Housewife Kim Zolciak is indeed dating female celebrity DJ Tracy Young.

Uhmm, where are you Big Papa?

Sources say, they've been seeing each other for three months now.

Another source says that Kim hopes that her coming out can be apart of the next season of the show.

Young, has produced remixes for Madonna; DJ-ed at soirees hosted by Cher, Lenny Kravitz, and Ricky Martin.

"Us magazine first reported the romance earlier today after the lovebirds were spotted on Saturday at the Blacks' Annual Gala in Miami Beach."

Lets see what the rest of the housewives have to say about this!

Readers comment me and tell me what you have to say.

Notebook 102.

So apparently it is said that I am going to "HELL".

Obviously because of my lifestyle; I CANNOT change that.

Bottom line is this; I live for me and me only!

I came in this world alone; and I will die that way.

GOD will give me my final judgement when the time comes.

Your judgements and opinions don`t phase me.

I'm a strong woman with thick skin.

Its all sticks and stones.

Try again; maybe in the next life!

If you want to know something about me; just ask me.

I have no problem with telling you.

If you don`t like what you hear; well thats too damn bad.

Life goes on with or without you.

End of story.

I really don`t care if im accepted or not.

I respect and love myself.

Sorry to say my parents don`t know me as a person.

They know who they see.

What are my basic favorites?

You couldn`t tell me.

But I say that I`m gay; and I`m going to hell with a ticket in my hand.

I`ll be fine; nothing I haven`t experienced before.

You couldn`t walk a mile in my shoes.

Know me before you JUDGE ME.

How To Control Stress

Everyone has stress, but not everyone can control.

Do you want to stop or take control of you stress?

Well I am here to help those of you who want to take immediate control of it.

What is stress? Stress is pressure or strain that tends to distort a body. In general, stress is related to both external and internal factors. External factors include the physical environment, including your job, your relationships with others, your home, and all the situations, challenges, difficulties, and expectations you're confronted with on a daily basis. Internal factors determine your body's ability to respond to, and deal with, the external stress-inducing factors. Internal factors which influence your ability to handle stress include your nutritional status, overall health and fitness levels, emotional well-being, and the amount of sleep and rest you get.

Signs of stress are:

• sleep disturbances
• muscle tensions
• headaches
• gastrointestional disturbances
• fatigue

How can you manage stress? By exercising! Exercise on a regular basis helps to turn down the production of stress hormones and neurochemicals. Exercise can help avoid the damage to our health that prolonged stress can cause. In fact, studies have found that exercise is a potent antidepressant, anxiolytic (combats anxiety), and sleeping aid for many people.

Dirty Hoes/Roomates

There is one thing that I can not tolerate and its people being dirty. Especially if you sharing a space with me, that is disgusting and by far GROSS! I practice healthy hygiene every since I was a little girl and ever since I moved into these campus apartments, they stuck me with all these dirty ass girls. That I can not stand and tolerate, its just not kosher at all. How do you go a week without taking a shower, but then when a dude comes through you quick to drop ya drawers and hop in the shower? I have severe OCD when it comes to cleaning my bathroom that I share with my roomate. I don't play that dirty sars shit my dude, wash your ass and cleanup after yourself. I'm thinking about posting how to take care of your feminine parts in our bathroom, on the mirror so this heifer knows how to take care of herself. This shit is ungodly and not sanitary at all. If any of you experience this or know anybody that is dirty and skip out on washing their cooch or ass, I have some tips and pointers for these dirty skanks. Shit like this piss me off and it makes my OCD worse then it already is. Below are some tips and advice on how to practice good female hygiene:

• Wash the vulva every day with soap and water. Make sure to wash between all the folds of the skin and rinse away all soap. Dry completely, making sure you get between the folds of the skin.
• If menstruating (having your period), avoid using deodorant pads or deodorant tampons. A tampon should not be left in the vagina for more than 4-8 hours at a time.
• Shower or bathe every day. Your private areas sweat just like the rest of you, so it is very important that you wash away any sweat or dirt that may have gathered there. Always cleanse your feminine parts after any kind of sexual contact, even if it was only touching or oral contact. This will greatly reduce your risk of infection in your vagina as well as your urinary tract.  
• changing underwear daily  

you know anybody thatz dirty direct them to this blog or give them this hefty tips, on maintaining the healthy hygiene.

 

 

Friendships outside of your relationship

This subject is very touchy but definately needs to be talked about. Some people think that you can't have friendships outside of your intimate relationship. In my opinion I think everybody should have a few friendships outside of their relationship for a balance or equilibrium. You don't have to agree with me but this is what I think and feel. Alot of people think its wrong to have friendships beside your relationship, why? I really don't know. My thing is when i'm with someone, if you trust me then you have nothing to worry about. If you don't trust me, then why are still here? Feel me? Everyone deserves friends outside of their relationship to keep their head level and steady. I am a free-spirit so I do as I please, I choose who to call my friends and who I delete out of my life. I am big on astrology, thats how I basically choose my friends, I can tell you I only have three people that I can safely say are my friends. In life its all about choosing the right people and feeling shit out and seeing how fxcked up alot of people are. Don't let anyone tell you, you can't have friends when you're in a relationship..We all human and we all equal bottomline.

Followers and Posers.

Alot of females that I see or that are around me try to be something or someone they`re not.

Why? I really don't know.

They buy things they won't normally buy because they wanna be someone else.

Some portray themselves as bougouis or posers.

Personally I think these females don't know who they are or where they came from.

They are like little school girls imitating what they see on tv or what other females are doing.

Wanna know what that is called? A follower.

Be a leader, trendsetter, or a role model.

Why do you want to do exactly what another chick is doing?

I may never understand it, because I am my own person.

I follow my own trend, rules, and I have my own brain.

I still know people from high school that are still following other people.

Grow up already!

Followers are one of my top five pet peeves, I can't tolerate it.

It's like im grown but I have a twin or I feel like im a triplet or something.

If you live on your own and you still all up in somebody's ass crack.

Boo boo you have a major problem!

Don't ask me where I got my shoes, so you can go buy the exact same pair!

Please DONT do that!

Cut the crap and start your own trends!

Relationship Strains

I don't speak alot on relationships but I think I should blog at least one good time about them. Relationships to me, mean its a partnership, a friendship, and a commitment between two people who deeply care about each other. A relationship will progress when people are open, honest, and truthful with one another, in other words that's how it will be successful and work. Although relationships can vary from months up until years there are some strains or obstacles that can cause issues and conflicts that often lead to breakups,cheating, and heartbreak. I will list a few that I think that cause alot of issues.

• Time restraints- alot of people don't know how to balance their time so therefore, one partner will often feel lonely or will feel like they need to find someone else to fill that void. Time should be worked out evenly because nobody should feel like they are in a relationship by themselves.
• Honesty- why is it so hard for people to be real and truthful? Its time to grow up and stop lying, I rather someone be 100 percent with me then lie to me and then I have to find out another way. Honesty is one of the major elements of making a relationship work no matter what. You don't have honesty then you don't have shit.
• Trust- If you can't trust your partner, why are still with them? Ask yourself that question and if you don't have a logical answer then get the stepping and don't look back.
• Mama's boys & girls- I hear bout this all the time and see it all the time. It's said when you feel like you dating the mama too, MAMA LET THEM G0! Either the girlfriend/boyfriend isn't good enough, or they always want to be included in the couples plans. My thing is you are married or have someone in your life, let them entertain you, stop interfering in your child's love life.Those who move back in with your mama just to be up under her, SHAME on you, you are grown and trying to have a relationship, no partner should have to suffer and have to feel like they are second best and on the back burner. Trust its not a nice feeling at all.
• Cheating- I'm not going to lie I did it, and it never felt good, but I have learned and matured, its never worth it in the end. So I always ask WHY? Was it worth it? 100 percent of the time the answer is no it wasn't worth it, so stop hurting your partner. If you don't want them anymore just leave and go about your business instead of cheating and hurting them. 

Relationships aren't a game, depending on the person you chose it may be a long term thing and not a play thing. 

How to Get Rid of Dark Spots

Always wonder how to get rid of those dark spots on your face? Well I might just have some tips for you ladies who want help. There are various causes for hyper-pigmentation such as hormonal changes due to pregnancy or menopause, vitamins[A,B,and E], minerals, and calcium. The sun also plays the major role in the increase of dark spots on your face. Here are some tips to help reduce some of these dark spots:

• use SPF15 or higher daily
• do not pick pimples for they will leave scarring
• use gentle exfoliating face washes so you don't tear your skin
  
• use toners to even out skin complexion
  
• use moisturizers so your face won't be dried out and flakey
  

People Who Obsess over ATTENTION!

Can I ask question?

Why do people do the stupidest things just to get attention from you?

Male or female, I will never understand it.

I can't go anywhere without a male or female doing or saying some dumb shit just to try to get some damn attention from me.

If I dont know you or like you STOP going out your way to get me to entertain your lame ass.

I experience various situations with both sexes I'm going to give you an example from both sexes.

Males: Say Slim! You got a man? Wanna be friends? [NOTE TO YOU: If I DO N0T look at you or give you any indication that I know that you exist D0NT BOTHER wasting your time.]

Females:[this is can go on for days]

• Looks: Eyeballing the hell out of me and don't say shit.[speak your mind trick]
• Oral: "I can't stand her ass".[One, you don't know me kid, don't get it twisted and Two, I don't givva good got damn if you do or don't THEE END!]

• With friends:"Who is she?" Where she from?"[DON'T worry bout me playa, just do you and I'ma keep doing me ya feel me?]

People obsess over drawing attention to theirselves or want it from other people.

Get a freakin life why don't you?

I'm not gonna front sometimes its entertaining, cuz all I'm gonna do is laugh in your damn face.

And sometimes its just so damn annoying.

Many people need to go and seek help cuz that shit aint cute at all.

GET WELL soon FOOLS!

THEE END!